Why do we love charming people? A charmer has the power to delight, attract and fascinate others. When you are charming, it works in your favour. It promotes you. It makes you influential. It opens the door to opportunities, so why not work on your charm. Listed below are a few ways to make yourself more charming.
Smiling seems very easy but many people don’t smile enough. Most are consumed by the burdens and challenges of life. Charming people smile more. Smiling shows that you are a warm person. Everyone wants to be around a person who smiles and is happy. I have landed quite a few opportunities in my life and I simply put it down to one small factor; my smile. Once I discovered that secret, I worked more on my smile and received more opportunities.
Be Genuinely Interested In Others
Charming people know how to make you feel like you the only one in the world at that moment. They have your full attention. They listen. They take note.
When you show interest in others, it makes you more charming because people want to know that they matter.
Charming people remember names or important events like birthdays. People love it when you remember their name. It makes them feel important. The best thing to do when you meet someone for the first time is repeat their name back. If you have an opportunity, also write it down. Another way to remember a person’s name is to identify something unique about them and link it to their name.
Be a Good Story Teller
Charmers are great story tellers. They are so imaginative and captivating. You just want to listen to them all day. They know how to get your full attention and their authenticity shines through when sharing their stories. They are always beaming with life.
Show Human Side
Charming people are not afraid to show their human side. They are vulnerable and can easily open up to their weakness and challenges which makes them more approachable and easier to get along with. People also trust you more when you show your human side.
Have A Sense Of Humour
Charming people are happy people who they don’t take themselves or life too seriously. They are incredibly optimistic and positive. They can be silly at times for fun but know when to be serious. They always look on the bright side of life. They don’t worry so much because they have faith in God. They are fun to be around. Is that you?
So lets hear from you. What makes others more charming? Please leave a comment and share this post with others. The world will be a better place with more charming people.